What To Do if Your Ex Wants You Back

*This article mostly applies on girls.

You’ve moved on. Or at least I’m assuming you have. You’re finally happily independent, or you may have a different man to yourself now, and everything is going well.

Until your ex-boyfriend comes around. Yet again.

Isn’t it such an unfortunate coincidence that when you’ve finally let go, that’s when he comes begging you to return?

It isn’t.

See, I have this theory that when people see their ex move on, they feel vulnerable. They feel left behind. I know this; I’ve been there.

Well, what do you do now?

1. Ask yourself.

The Mighty Ex-boyfriend is all candy and sweets with his words, trying to convince you to come back. But would you let this affect you? Ask yourself, because at the end of the day, your feelings are what matters the most. If you still love him, or you want to give it one more try, no one’s stopping you, but..

2. Examine the past.

Think of the reasons it didn’t work out in the first place. Ask him his own point of view of how it happened. You can’t be bias on this one. For all you know, you were too caught up with breaking up that you never noticed it was all on you. Or on him.

3. Watch his words and actions.

What if he’s only saying all these things for a booty call? Don’t be fooled. Be sure to check up on his words. See if he’s sincere enough to write the sentence correctly. If he texts you this, “Oh bae sorry for evrything. I jus want u back,” uhm, I don’t think that’s called sincerity. If you want to be certain about it, why don’t you two meet up or talk on the phone instead?

4. If he cheated..

This is all on you. If you really believe he’s changed, go on and give him the chance he’s been rooting for. But be cautious. If he’s cheated more than once, what’s holding him from cheating one last time?

5. Be happy.

Relationships aren’t supposed to be stressful. They’re supposed to help you, to make you ecstatic. So watch out. There’s a reason he’s called an EX-boyfriend, hun.

– S.


How To Lead Him On

Warning: This article is not for people with good hearts and good intentions.


So, you want to know how to be a female player, huh?

I’m not going to judge. You do whatever it is you need to do, and I’ll do mine.

And what you need to do right now is to give that nasty little boy a taste of his own medicine. Right?

Here are some ways to get him on his knees, and, if you want to add a little more drama, you can leave right off without notice once he’s done with. Or they’re done with. The more the merrier.

1. Get a Guy You Know You Won’t Regret Playing

To start off, you want to target the bad boy you don’t necessarily like. The boy you’re attached to is completely off limits. You can’t really play someone you have real feelings for, or you’ll end up getting played. We wouldn’t want that now, would we?

Get a guy who has a very bad reputation when it comes to girls. This will get you more challenged. And, plus, you can’t say he doesn’t deserve it.

2. Sweet Innocence

You don’t have to take acting classes, but you have to at least be decent when it comes to acting sweet, and acting like you really adore him. This is the most important part of the process because this will be what makes him crumble down to pieces when he remembers you after you’ve left. Touch, but not too much. This will give them the memory of your skin, the way you felt or smell, everything.

3. Have Fun but Never Lose Your Guard

Go ahead. Fool around with the victim. As long as you don’t let yourself fall. Always remember what you’re there for.


I repeat, do not get attached. The reason why you picked this guy in the first place is because you know you have no real interest in him. Maybe except for his looks. But that’s pretty much it.

5. Post-climax and Rebounds

Have another guy ready. Before you end things with the first one, you have to have a rebound that would be willing to take you anytime. And make sure that they don’t know the other person exists.

6. Climax

This is where you stop being all sweet and gooey. Don’t text him back as much. Give believable excuses. Stop going on dates with him. Don’t do anything that would make you seem like you still “love” him. He will ask multiple questions, ignore them if you could, or give cold, cold answers.


If you got whatever you want from him, whether it be free food, clothes, sex, whatever, and you’re satisfied, leave it. Contact the rebound ASAP. Don’t reply to the text messages. Be cold. Be sure to make no contact with him whatsoever unless he engages it in real life.

8. Rebound Time!

For instructions on how to deal with this other boy, repeat steps 2-8. Thank you.

– S.